Scariest thing ever said "TRUST ME" :P :)

Hey buddies...!!!
                            In some posts ahead i might be talking about the factors that are extremely small but essential in our life. Sometimes we don't realise the presence of it but its absence is always regretted......and the first of it is "TRUST"
                            leaving all other thoughts aside from your mind, just think if ever someone has said this to you, i mean this "TRUST ME" thing....??? so what were the first thoughts that came to your mind.....???

                          Yeah! I know "TRUST", this word has many meanings in it, just this one word "TRUST". when you apply this to different situations you get different meanings.
for example:-
 A Knight says to his King,"trust me, your majesty", or your friend says,"trust me buddy", or maybe your gf/bf/life- partner says,"trust me love". In all of the situations the word "TRUST" has its different meanings, in first one it shows the loyalty of knight, while in second it means the real meaning of trust to have faith, while in third case it means "love".....yes in any relationship, whether its business or service, or any relation, all of them fail when there's one thing missing, and yeah that's TRUST.
                     Trusting someone means, having faith in them, having faith in their actions, decisions, thoughts that whatever they'll do that will be good for you or will not harm you. But imagine a situation where your trust has been broken many times by a person and the same person says you this thing"TRUST ME".....then will you trust that person again?? for most of us the answer will be obviously NO, a big HUGE NO....... forget that even if someone betrays us once, we think at least 10 times on again trusting that person, am i right or wrong???

                    Gaining someone's trust is not that easy when that person is betrayed several times, It feels like, its almost impossible for them to trust someone again. And i don't think there's a single person in the world who has not broken someone's trust, if not intentionally maybe unintentionally and they still not know it........Yeah, at times we also don't have idea that we have betrayed someone, be it a simple promise. the most difficult of all is that to maintain the TRUST factor intact.

                   You'll must be thinking why I'm suddenly writing all this, so for that here's your answer.........In life you have to trust a lot of people, and you do that, everyday without even realising it like:-
(1) While travelling in public transport.....don't you trust the driver/motorman/..etc
(2) Buying stuff of your favourite brand...... be it anything.
(3) Your parents.......the ones who brought you in this world
(4) Your teachers and someone helping you in time of need

                     yeah i know the last two cases have some exceptions, but every single thing in this world works on trust,so keep this things in mind, never break someones trust and second never let someone break your trust. yeah as for business it may not matter to that extent as every thing there is done with paper work and in legal manner, but what when it comes to the our real life?? here the trust gains its importance much more. misunderstandings may occur in life, but have at least one person in life to whom you can go and pour your heart out, with the trust that it'll be between both of you.

                      Most of the relations break due to lack of trust and if you really love someone tell them "I TRUST YOU", than "I LOVE YOU" saying i love you is easy but committing to someone means a lot. so guys remember these things, with which i conclude this....
1. There will be 'N' number occasions where you have to trust people,so give them a chance.
2. Even if they break your trust, don't let it effect your decision for trusting others, at least give them a fair chance ;)
3.Get an idea about the situation in which the person broke your trust. maybe he/she had no other option left.
4.Don't allow anyone to break your trust on someone.
5. And last but not least HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF, and you'll never get depressed.

and tysm,
for reading this.. :)
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THE OMG Effect.....!!!!

hello everyone..!!!
              yeah you might be thinking what has gone wrong with my brain, but unfortunately everything is as good as it was before... :P. but yeah the "OMG" i'm referring here is the movie "OH MY GOD"........
              There are some movies that have made a significant impact on my life and the way how I see the world..........I might talk about them in my next post but here i wanna share some interesting things i found out,though sources for these facts were reliable enough(don't ask me about it, as i don't remember... :P).............So, back to topic, this movie has made a great impact on my life, some days ago i came across a page on web, while randomly scrolling through the web. and the facts on that page made me think that all of the religious customs that we think of are not a complete waste. Getting confused.....???? Let me Explain........

              So the scene is like after the movies like OMG and other such movies, my atheist belief got much stronger(Yeah i was a science kid right from childhood, judging and analysing and viewing everything from a scientific vision) i use to think if all such things like rituals, pujas, and all such stuff do work??? but then a thought would come to my mind that the elder people who made these customs were not crazy people, afterall their brains have made it possible, this morden era, where we enjoy all sorts of technology and facilities...... and yeah i got a new angle to view this customs and rituals and finally got some proper explanation for some of them :-

          (1) Throwing coins in rivers, lakes and other such water bodies and making wishes.
                 In olden days, the coins were used to be made of copper, bronze and other such metals, out of these mostly copper coins were used. And such coins when get into water bodies released ions, which helped to improve the digestion and overall health. as human body needs several kinds of ions, and thus their deficiency can lead to problems. but now coins are made of different kinds of alloys and whats use of them throwing in water bodies, unless some one collects them or maybe there will be a mine developed after some thousand years... :P

       (2) Women not allowed to move out during periods by some customs.
              While talking on this one I wanna make it clear that I'm not on any of gender bias. the reason I found out, the logical one is that, thinking about that era, there were no proper medical facilities available, temples and even most of villages were near to forests. considering the weak immunity and physical condition, allowing them to rest, and keeping them away from all kind of infections may be a reason, and most important one...........hehe it maybe not scientific but its logical enough. how many  moms get holidays???? this gave them a sort of weekend effect, but this too came with some shitty non-sense stuff.and majority of you know it very well.

      (3) Observing fasts, of several kinds. the reasoning for all i don't know but still majority has this reason.
            In majority of religions there are customs where different variety of fasts are observed. with different kinds of procedures,like in some fasts there is allowance to eat from a listed food items, in some only liquids, and in some nothing, not even water (Nirjala).
            these fasts help in some or the other way to maintain a good working of digestion system, and in short a healthy and fit body, as on daily basis we do or don't eat some stuffs that these fasts prescribe us and are certainly good for still with minor glitches may be the possible reason.

so guys, by not making all long and boring to read, i'm concluding it here, but at the end of all this i wanna say that, think before you act, every time. apply logic as these customs were extremely beneficial at the time they were made but now the time has changed and the laws and these things are facing a urgent need to change according to the lifestyle that we live in we need. but they are not at all bad to be thrown off and sort of ignored and banned.......

and the most important of all
TYSM....!!!, for reading this;
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#pets #BFFs #loved #forever

hello everyone...!!!
                   I'm sure there are ample of pet lovers here, right..?? this post is dedicated to such lovely animals who have became an integral part of our lives. "Pets"........... there's a lot to talk about them, like be it any animal, or any species, but each of 'em is loved and adored. i know many of you aren't so crazy about pets........but for all animal and pet lovers its like their pets are/were an extreme important part of their lives.
                Majority of us have either dogs, or cats, some may have birds like parrots, love birds, etc.....and such many species.....,but I'm gonna talk of all pets but most probably i would be talking about dogs, the most common pet, and the most faithful friend.........
              We bring them home, love them and care for them. but there are some special ones who, bring home pups, and when they grow up and remain not so cute as they were as pups, or maybe it has become difficult to meet their needs, they make them to live the life ahead as stray dogs........ Sad but true.......i wanna also give some of the facts regarding it and its also same for other animals and with the people with other weird pets like tigers, lions , and varied other reptiles............sometimes i think they were better before till you brought them home........because when a pet is brought home they slowly get attached to us, and the surrounding environment, and when suddenly as they grow up we throw them out of house and force them to live their lives on streets!!!!............some people say they love their pets as their own kids, do they do same with them..???? I'm not sure about that also :P
               But on a serious note........the number of stray animals on streets are increasing every day, their struggle for existence has become more harder then it was in wild...........I know dogs are not that wild creatures but certainly for other animals and birds like parrots and other species,but this will not only harm them but also us.....taking example of florida and alligators, honey bees imported from Africa to America,, and many more. destroying forests also contribute to this to some extent.
              here are some of the facts i wanna share about homeless pets.......
  • Only 1 out of every 10 dogs will find a permanent home.
  • The main reasons animals are in shelters: owners give them up, or animals control finds them on street.
  • Homeless animals outnumber homeless people 5 to 1.
  • Each year, approximately 2.7 million dogs and cats are killed every year because shelters are too full and there aren't enough adoptive homes.Act as a publicist for your shelters so pets can find homes.
  • Approximately 7.6 million comparison animals enter animal shelters nationwide every year. Of those, approximately 3.9 million are dogs and 3.4 million are cats.
  • According to the National Council on Pet Population Study and Policy(NCPPSP), less than 2% of cats and only 15 to 20% dogs are returned to their owners.
  • 25% of dogs that enter local shelters are purebred.
  • About twice as many animals enter shelters as strays compared to the number that are relinquished by their owners.
  • It's impossible to determine how many dogs and cats live in the United states. Estimates for cats alone range up to 70 million.
  • Only 10% of the animals received by shelters haven been spayed or neutered. Over population, due to owners letting their pets accidentally or intentionally reproduce, sees millions of these "excess" animals killed annually.
  • Many strays are lost pets that were not kept properly indoors or provided with identification.
                         so one thing i wanna conclude with this, bring pets home when you are gonna care for them, not as some neighbour or friend has and you wanna have a pet too like 'em ,,,,,,,,,they are not toys buddy...........and whether they are cute or not pets are always best make them one and adopt pets rather then getting them from  pet shops.....and if you are unable to take care of 'em then handover them to someone who can care for them.........don't let them lives as stray animals or get euthanized. as i wanted to keep it short i have not added pics to post.....else the sights of homeless pets in shelter homes or on roadside were horrible.....internet is full of them.......
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True Love......Mystery still continues.....

hey guys...!!!
              First of all I would like to thank you all for all of your valuable comments and your point of views that all of you shared with me, yeah be it not in the comment section below :P.....but yeah in the world as there are many people their are equal point of views to have a look i am back with a another thought to think on........
               With the monsoon season, in India, more specifically to be here its raining in Mumbai, in the city that never sleeps :P...........and as rains are always connected to all the romantic and luvy duvy stuff.........the thought that grabbed my attention was "What is TRUE LOVE?"..........
              Everywhere there are different views regarding it........"LOVE" this feeling is the most unpredictable and is one of the weird feelings ever. this feeling itself has many meanings, many ways of expression. But here I'm not gonna talk about the parental or sibling love.........but the love about which you are thinking in your mind right now............
              Rains are always connected to love by the poets, authors etc,..........most of us are maybe in relationships, many of us maybe are even what you guys think on what is true love.......???? Some thing to be felt?? enjoyed and cherished...?? or to be achieved ?? or found out like a hidden treasure or uncovering a mystery???
                According to me a true love is never something that can be never be defined, it has its own conditions, own mysteries, and its own special moments to be cherished and enjoyed.........and not to analysed and judged by some materialistic means or parameters........
                Sometimes i think that is  it really worthy or i mean to say appropriate to judge your relation by some app or on a advice of some or other random dating expert..?? its like as every lock has its own key, similarly every relation has its own essence and lets not ruin it by some random stuff and by comparing it with things like some sort of compatibility and by advice of some random guy/girl who advice you on how abouts of any relationships......
                  So winding up this one here and letting you think about the real meaning of true love......and do let your views reach me........they are valuable to me....

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Incredible INDIA........The Harsh Truth

NOTE:-This post is about the some of the ironies of INDIA, yes our INCREDIBLE INDIA. Some of the points I  mention here might be a topic for some debate and disagreement, so its a request to take it as just a post and not a topic for debate, no intentions to hurt anyone. Extreme apologies if done by mistake.So think on this whenever you get time and try having a look at reality. this post is not for ones expecting a luvy duvy and a mushy mushy sweet topic........IT'S JUST A POST After all but if even after this there's slight change then i will find posting this worthy.

Every day we hear a lot of things, where we INDIANS are mentioned, the people of INCREDIBLE INDIA. India our motherland is blessed with the most of the natural beauty and wealth in the world, its a sort of heaven on earth. Just think on some of the Facts about INDIA our INCREDIBLE INDIA...............

(1) India is the only country where all 10 bio-geographical regions are found.
(2) There are majority of indians everywhere in the world occupying the top notch fields and positions.
(3) We have a varied history and a glorified past, where India used to be mentioned as the "GOLDEN BIRD".
(4) Several religions reside here, a lot of languages, equally the number of cultures and their cultural diversity.

Instead of all of this now what we are doing actually, the above were just some of the random facts that i mentioned.when we talk about INCREDIBLE INDIA, on factually counting the things that we native indians made are.......???? does any of them come to the level of the things like taj mahal, red fort, or the gateway of india......???? oh leave it. some days ago while surfing on through a social site found a troll, kabaddi should be the national game of india........because..?? its tendency of indians to pull others down, holding their legs, sadly this has become like if i don't succeed i'll also not allow you to succeed. Wow..!!! Really great, I mean hatsoff.......we are now also famous for the level of corruption.....not for the great people and their great discoveries.WE all just keep fighting internally and just boast it like fools, let it be anything, a window seat in public transport..????......or.... bargaining from a poor seller roadside for a rupee or two and just wasting money on things like soft drinks and such other waste.(NOT INTENDED AGAINST ANYONE JUST GENERAL IDEA)

we do anything special or not, there are some things we all are good right from birth........sarcasm......complaining........trolling........showoff (how can i forget this :P).........

we fill internet with the various trolls, and sarcasm, but just filling up the social media doesn't do the thing guys..!! Recently there was a lot of stuff going on both online and offline on SWACHH BHARAT tell me one thing how many of you did even one single thing for that mission, stations are as usual dirty, tracks lined up with garbage and shit (yup...!! yeah really shit)..............we just heard it from one ear and just threw it out from other.........and WE EXPECT THE THINGS TO CHANGE..........seriously no government is completely good or completely worse.........but the change happens when  we, yeah us the people change.........just try thinking on stuff like this I have to conclude this post here itself as this is a topic for great discussion and debate but for now ending this here...try thinking on it.......and please do let me know your views on this.....
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It's NOT easy being a Guy

Some Days ago there was mother's day; a large number of people changed their profile pictures with their mom's pictures. But normally it's not the same case on father's day. why so?........I'm not into any gender bias but just wanna divert some of your attention towards an interesting mindset that our society has developed.

When a male child is born the poor chap is loaded with loads of expectations from that very moment on wards. i don't know much about guys in other countries but here i'm in general talking about Indian guys, here we have a different set of problems to face.

We know that it's difficult to be a woman, The high heels, the leg-shaving, the period cramps, and the pain of child birth -- they seem to get the short end of the stick at almost every turn, but in that discussion, it often gets forgotten that being a man isn't a total walk in sun-dappled park, either.

We have our own set of problems and vulnerabilities, some small-- even funny -- and others large and painful. we also live with the constant expectations to be strong and to keep our issues to ourselves.

Society expects us to be strong, rough, emotionally stable as well as to be kind, generous and sweet natured. While it comes to choosing our careers mostly it's affected by some non-existing long distance cousin or by the financial condition of the family, the choice of the career depends on how much we can earn after completing the graduation.

For getting girls too it's like playing a game of chess for us, we always have to struggle and play our cards well else or it's always a risk of getting landed into friendzone, or getting either tagged as weirdo, creepy or the worst combining the expectations of the parents, girlfriends/spouses, friends. Our situation's like juggler juggling with knives in a circus. one mistake and game's over.....

Pity us men.......
If you put a woman on a pedestal and try to protect her from the rat race, you're a male chauvinist.
if you stay home and do the housework, you're sissy.

if you work hard, there is never any time for her.
if you don't work hard enough, you're a good-for-nothing bum.

if she has a boring repetitive job with low pay, this is exploitation.
if you have a boring repetitive job with low pay, you should get off your butt and find something better.

if you get a promotion ahead of her, that is favoritism.
if she gets a job ahead of you, it's a equal opportunity.

if you mention how nice she looks, it's sexual harassment.
if you keep quiet, it's male indifference.

if you cry, you're wimp.
if you don't, you're an insensitive jerk.

if you make a decision without consulting her, you're a chauvinist.
if she makes a decision without consulting you, she's a liberated woman.

if you ask her to do something she doesn't enjoy, that's domination.
if she asks you, it's a favor.

if you like a woman to shave her legs and keep in shape, you're sexist.
if you don't, you're unromantic.

if you try to keep yourself in shape, you're vain.
if you don't, you're a slob.

if you buy her flowers, you're after something.
if you don't, you're not thoughtful.

if you're proud of your achievements, you're up on yourself.
if you don't you're not ambitious.

if she has a headache, she's tired.
if you have a headache, you don't love her anymore.

if you want it too often, you're oversexed.
if you don't, there must be someone else.

thanks for reading,
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