Saturday, 1 August 2015

Just a friend or something else.......???

hi buddies,
                    Could you relate yourself with the title? then I suppose this post is for you. Life is so complex, with so many emotions around us. You deal with a lot of stuff everyday. There is so much of work, and along with it there, lies a lot of expectations from everyone.even after all this there is someone for whom you find time to share everything that's happened with you all the day long. who knows every single moment that has ever existed in your life, and there is not even a single day when you have forgot or missed a chance to enlighten them with your life's happenings. I suppose is that someone Special your best friend?? if i am on a right track, that special one has already occupied at least a little space in your heart or maybe in your life.


                     You may or may not realise this, but others do realise this. And they make you notice this.and now after this first of all you don't accept this realisation that you have developed feelings for them but later on after thinking a lot, you start panicking. And questions like these come to your mind. 'What's happening here?' 'What i was doing?' or maybe 'What's wrong with me?' 'How can i even think of this?' etc.........

                   Most of the time people confuse friendship with something else and vice versa. Its absolutely normal as sometimes what is going in your mind might not be same with the other person's thought process. And to find out what's the matter we just start fetching for some different kind of tips and tricks from our friends who have a lot experience in dating. Yeah I know this sounds absurd but its true. Seems like a movie script right? You meet someone and get attached to them so much of attachment that you misunderstand the relationship sometimes.

                  There's something we know as close or deep friendship. We have many slang terms for it as well umm like besties, buddies, and so on. Now out of all this matter you'll say then we can find out whether the thing we have in our mind is same as the other person right? For this many will take internet quizzes, tips, will go through several instructive articles and at the end there's big confusion. The thing that I wanna say is just ask this out to your special someone straight and clear, I know it requires a lot of courage but there will be either yes or no simple. Why we keep on thinking about this and get frustrated. Some will say if "I get rejected then?", for them I wanna suggest that if you guys were close enough there would be enough understanding between both of you and involving any third person will just mess it up. So its just like go and ask them out straight forward, if you are shy enough then you can go for text messages . But remember one thing even if your special one doesn't feel same as you, dont get depressed and try out the other stuffs on web. Here I know many of you will have one question in your mind that how I know all this right? So for your answer I research first before writing and posting anything hehe.....

                  So guys, get them enlightened with the thing thats going in your mind. There will be just either 'yes' or 'no'. For 'yes' I dont think I require to say anything, but for 'no' I wanna say, don't get depressed, feel rejected and be the same friends like that you were before. It's difficult once you have developed feelings for someone but rather time heals it much better tham anything and isn't it a better option than being a crybaby or person who continuously sulks always or on worse getting labeled as a despo? Many people will come in your life ahead, life is all about moving ahead, enjoying and cherishing every moment of it . Thanks for reading. 
Yours,
Dhawal Joshi :) ;)
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