It's NOT easy being a Guy

Some Days ago there was mother's day; a large number of people changed their profile pictures with their mom's pictures. But normally it's not the same case on father's day. why so?........I'm not into any gender bias but just wanna divert some of your attention towards an interesting mindset that our society has developed.

When a male child is born the poor chap is loaded with loads of expectations from that very moment on wards. i don't know much about guys in other countries but here i'm in general talking about Indian guys, here we have a different set of problems to face.

We know that it's difficult to be a woman, The high heels, the leg-shaving, the period cramps, and the pain of child birth -- they seem to get the short end of the stick at almost every turn, but in that discussion, it often gets forgotten that being a man isn't a total walk in sun-dappled park, either.

We have our own set of problems and vulnerabilities, some small-- even funny -- and others large and painful. we also live with the constant expectations to be strong and to keep our issues to ourselves.

Society expects us to be strong, rough, emotionally stable as well as to be kind, generous and sweet natured. While it comes to choosing our careers mostly it's affected by some non-existing long distance cousin or by the financial condition of the family, the choice of the career depends on how much we can earn after completing the graduation.

For getting girls too it's like playing a game of chess for us, we always have to struggle and play our cards well else or it's always a risk of getting landed into friendzone, or getting either tagged as weirdo, creepy or the worst combining the expectations of the parents, girlfriends/spouses, friends. Our situation's like juggler juggling with knives in a circus. one mistake and game's over.....

Pity us men.......
If you put a woman on a pedestal and try to protect her from the rat race, you're a male chauvinist.
if you stay home and do the housework, you're sissy.

if you work hard, there is never any time for her.
if you don't work hard enough, you're a good-for-nothing bum.

if she has a boring repetitive job with low pay, this is exploitation.
if you have a boring repetitive job with low pay, you should get off your butt and find something better.

if you get a promotion ahead of her, that is favoritism.
if she gets a job ahead of you, it's a equal opportunity.

if you mention how nice she looks, it's sexual harassment.
if you keep quiet, it's male indifference.

if you cry, you're wimp.
if you don't, you're an insensitive jerk.

if you make a decision without consulting her, you're a chauvinist.
if she makes a decision without consulting you, she's a liberated woman.

if you ask her to do something she doesn't enjoy, that's domination.
if she asks you, it's a favor.

if you like a woman to shave her legs and keep in shape, you're sexist.
if you don't, you're unromantic.

if you try to keep yourself in shape, you're vain.
if you don't, you're a slob.

if you buy her flowers, you're after something.
if you don't, you're not thoughtful.

if you're proud of your achievements, you're up on yourself.
if you don't you're not ambitious.

if she has a headache, she's tired.
if you have a headache, you don't love her anymore.

if you want it too often, you're oversexed.
if you don't, there must be someone else.

thanks for reading,
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1 comment:

  1. Okay, this post... I love it so much! And I just want you to know that even in all of the expectation of male strength, I see the work that men (and men of color do) and I commend you! Always.



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